Willyard: Be an example
An Editorial by Becky Fullerton and Jennifer Willyard
Does anyone else feel that wheels within the district are just spinning and spinning? Here we are, the first week of June and nothing in the best interest of our students or the taxpayers is being/has been accomplished.
The accomplishments we speak of, are not just the workings of the school board, but include the now apparent division of taxpayers in the district and the dissension that has now been created between our communities and the students in our schools.
Everyone just stop! Clear your mind for a moment and seriously think about what you/we are perpetuating. We all need to step back and look at all of the issues objectively and not emotionally.
As parents, we would ALL love to have a school in our neighborhoods. We would, conveniently, be able to be more involved with our students and with the school as a whole.
As parents, we want our children to achieve and be all that they can be. We want to encourage them to do their best in classes to make something of their lives, and we want them to take part in any and all of the activities that they enjoy.
As parents, we want our children to be educated, informed, respectful and helpful to others. We want them to have tons of friends and be seen in a good light by their teachers and other members of the community as well.
What if, EVERY town had their own school? What if, EVERY child made every sports team or EVERY activity to which they applied? What if EVERY child was respectful, kind, and had a friendship with every person they knew?
Wouldn’t that be nirvana? Sadly that is not the way it is in the real world.
In the real world you do not always agree with everyone. Not everyone makes it for head cheerleader or quarterback. Not everyone can afford a school in their neighborhood. So what are we, as supposed adults, teaching our children with all of the irresponsible decisions and the “fighting” and dissension that has been created? Are we teaching them to become ready for the real world? For college? For the workplace? NO, we are teaching them to do whatever it takes to fulfill their own agendas and the heck with whoever else may be in their way or hurt in the process. As adults we should lead by example……this is not the case in this district. Remember, actions reflect leadership.
So how do we reasonably compromise? How can we, together, do what is responsible and beneficial to our children and to ALL people of the community?
Where in this district is there a good example of compromise? Perhaps the adults in ASD should look to Lenape Tech as a place of compromise? The students there come from all over the county. They have learned to work TOGETHER and form lasting relationships with each other regardless of the school or the town they are from. These students have a desire to learn and are looking at the big picture. Most of these students also have the backing of their parents. Parents who aren’t telling them “well you’re from Ford City so you cannot associate with anyone from Kittanning” or “you came from Elderton so you don’t want to befriend anyone from West Shamokin because that is such an awful place”. The students at Lenape do not see themselves segregated by the prejudices and petty bickering of the adults from their attendance areas. They have learned to work together for a common goal. With appropriate examples as set by teachers and administrators at Lenape, these students are learning to function as positive, tolerant and productive ADULTS ready for the real world….ready for post high school success. We should want that for all students throughout the district and throughout the county.
Perhaps all of us should learn from their example. Perhaps we should try to work TOGETHER for the good of the ENTIRE district.
Maybe one good thing has come out of this whole awful situation….maybe we will all do our due diligence when voting for our representatives. Maybe we will look at “agendas” and decide that they are not what is in the best interest of all of us and make more appropriate choices when picking our elected officials. Maybe we will put more positive pressure on our now chosen officials to do what the majority of the voters want.
